| Many men today are confused as to how to | | | | have found |
| attract and deal | | | | |
| | | | another way to counteract it and deal with |
| with women. Today our women are more | | | | it (responding to |
| beautiful (through | | | | |
| | | | woman's general social power as the |
| natural selection and beautification), | | | | stimulus). The unnatural |
| capable and empowered | | | | |
| | | | transgression of sexual energy had to find |
| than at any point in history, and though | | | | an outlet.In order to become a successful |
| this is a wonderful | | | | seducer or 'PUA' generally a |
| | | | |
| thing, it's had many ramifications when it | | | | man has to study a system of countless |
| comes to | | | | techniques and |
| | | | |
| relationships.Countless guys including | | | | psychological triggers to try to bring a |
| 'great catches' are frustrated as | | | | woman's level of |
| | | | |
| to how to deal with, attract and succeed | | | | interest and attraction up to where it |
| with these | | | | matters.He will have to face a lot of |
| | | | rejection through his training |
| desirable women. In fact many men are so | | | | |
| frustrated that we | | | | to start seeing results...results that work |
| | | | with women |
| now have 40 year old virgins. The major | | | | |
| social dilemma that | | | | starting on the social level where she has |
| | | | the favor and he |
| I see exists is this:Men are wondering "what | | | | |
| is wrong with the women (and why do | | | | will often try to break down her social |
| | | | identity and her |
| they treat us like this)"? and women are | | | | |
| wondering, "Where | | | | belief in it so that her judgment becomes |
| | | | more clouded and |
| are all the real men?"Guys want to be a nice | | | | |
| guy and they will even do what | | | | in his favor.If he can 'talk her into' it to |
| | | | a point where he comes close |
| society tells them to when it comes to | | | | |
| dating and attracting | | | | to her expectational/ideal response, then he |
| | | | may 'get |
| women yet almost none of it works. In fact | | | | |
| it usually repels | | | | lucky'. This is the hard road and it's not |
| | | | natural, although |
| women away or incites them to reluctantly | | | | |
| partake in the | | | | with practice he can be more effective than |
| | | | being a nice guy |
| free gifts they're getting in exchange for | | | | |
| their own time | | | | of confused/diminished character who follows |
| | | | the outdated |
| even though the women are bored, not really | | | | |
| interested and | | | | courtship dating (not mating) ritual.Overly |
| | | | 'wooful', courting men (nice guys) or PUA's |
| definitely not attracted.Societal 'dating' | | | | (pick-up |
| is a lot of presumptuous false | | | | |
| | | | artists) are BOTH trying to work against the |
| expectations and ideals that cater to her | | | | natural energy |
| social leanings | | | | |
| | | | of what women really want by trying to deal |
| and not what her heart truly desires (also | | | | with her on the |
| because few of | | | | |
| | | | social level where she has received the |
| these men have 'character').Despite what the | | | | power and they are |
| experts say, it often ends up being what | | | | |
| | | | now essentially below her (and almost always |
| neither of them want (to appease arcane | | | | act it).She likes the attention and social |
| social norms) and | | | | proof plus all the gifts |
| | | | |
| the guy goes home with an emptier wallet and | | | | and meals at times from the nice guys but |
| a good night | | | | there's a part of |
| | | | |
| hug and she'll end up (having sex) with a | | | | her that is hollow and missing something (no |
| jerk who she is | | | | pun intended).She's not really attracted to |
| | | | these men and he doesn't |
| biologically attracted to.If he's 'lucky' he | | | | |
| can maybe this beautiful woman's friend. | | | | understand why he keeps buying her all these |
| | | | gifts and she |
| "Let's just be friends"...the kiss of death | | | | |
| for him if he | | | | doesn't call back and dumps him.There's no |
| | | | win/win situation there. I teach my men to |
| only wanted something else.So in order for | | | | keep |
| men to be more effective with dating they're | | | | |
| | | | things interdependent and not to abuse their |
| going to have to do some different things. | | | | power |
| And I'm not | | | | |
| | | | (potentially over women) when they attain |
| talking about becoming someone they're not | | | | awareness but to |
| so they have to | | | | |
| | | | respect women and add value to their |
| 'seduce' women or act like a jerk, be a | | | | lives.If a woman can just find a man who is |
| playboy or even to | | | | upfront, honest and |
| | | | |
| 'give her some of her own medicine'.Women | | | | congruent with who he is and how he lives |
| are just wondering why that can't find a man | | | | she'll respect him |
| they are | | | | |
| | | | (probably be greatly relieved from social |
| attracted to who actually IS healthy and | | | | pressures) and |
| stable.First of all society promotes | | | | |
| 'courtship' which is a | | | | then can decide whether to join him on his |
| | | | adventures or |
| socially derived function which worked great | | | | |
| throughout | | | | not...and he doesn't get rejected.In the |
| | | | game of attraction and who she is attracted |
| modern history when people lived in the same | | | | to (who |
| communities and | | | | |
| | | | she chooses and not what she or society |
| the focus was immediately on raising a | | | | says), her decisions |
| family. Simply put, | | | | |
| | | | are almost always made on the natural level |
| things changed.Today's independent women are | | | | (although |
| more interested in exercising | | | | |
| | | | unhealthy gold-diggers base their decisions |
| their freedoms and seeing what happens | | | | on the social |
| instead of putting up | | | | |
| | | | level and teenage boy band fans will become |
| with all of the implied expectations dealing | | | | infatuated with |
| with having to | | | | |
| | | | a star's independent character |
| marry each guy they go out with.Take a look | | | | portrayal).The biological and natural mating |
| at the hit 'Sex and the City'. Quite a long | | | | instinct is the timeless |
| ways | | | | |
| | | | authority that guarantees something like |
| from 'Leave it to Beaver' (and modern | | | | social development |
| programming would have | | | | |
| | | | wouldn't throw nature off it's course |
| been blasphemy back then; that's how far | | | | (although it's now |
| we've come).So I don't know why dating | | | | |
| experts keep teaching dating as | | | | being threatened).Everyone knows how to |
| | | | reproduce; we don't have to be taught |
| courtship; it's just so antiquated. Is it | | | | |
| really to | | | | (Return to Blue Lagoon). Social influence |
| | | | has just gotten in |
| 'protect' women (who are more independent | | | | |
| and powerful than | | | | the way. It has confused some men so much |
| | | | that they wonder |
| ever before anyways)?Maybe they just don't | | | | |
| want to face the reality of what women | | | | if they were ever meant to reproduce or go |
| | | | through the |
| want.Yes, most women eventually want to get | | | | |
| married but they want | | | | mating ritual. This is a very true reality |
| | | | for many men.And yet woman will often end up |
| it to happen casually and naturally when | | | | with jerks and losers |
| they meet a guy now | | | | |
| | | | instead who are fearless and strong in |
| to see how it develops (with someone she's | | | | natural character |
| interested in) | | | | |
| | | | because they're the closest options |
| INSTEAD OF having guys wooing and courting | | | | available to her |
| her from date | | | | |
| | | | attraction response ideal (of how she |
| number one with flowers, dinner, walking on | | | | 'feels' when she's |
| eggshells and lots | | | | |
| | | | with him). Basically our biology is stronger |
| of incoming phone calls from someone she's | | | | than our social |
| not interested in | | | | |
| | | | programming.And nice guys everywhere will |
| (unless she's letting her parents or social | | | | just not get what's going on |
| expectations rule | | | | |
| | | | and they will remain confused and |
| the decision).Usually that's a LOT of | | | | disparately powerless or |
| pressure and expectation to deal | | | | |
| | | | less than they could be most of their adult |
| with plus the guy's are coming on too heavy | | | | lives unless |
| and it's SO | | | | |
| | | | they really find their own path through the |
| predictable...they all seem the same to her | | | | mire.The answer lies in discovering what |
| just about and | | | | society has hidden from |
| | | | |
| it's very tiring. Now it's the good guys who | | | | him. It's not in being the wife-beater |
| are getting | | | | t-shirt guy, it's |
| | | | |
| their hearts trampled (see pop music) by | | | | about being a man of character; a man who is |
| these women.In a traditional 'dating' | | | | comfortable in |
| situation (which we know | | | | |
| | | | his own skin and can handle (and please) |
| mainstream society promotes) she's not | | | | women without |
| necessarily being | | | | |
| | | | having to say a word.This is what women |
| herself (although her grandma may have | | | | want. A real man. One who is respectful |
| been), she's being | | | | |
| | | | but never panders to women or let's them |
| what society tells her to be (although times | | | | violate his own |
| have changed) | | | | |
| | | | (respectful) boundaries. The fact that women |
| and how to act.Plus the man isn't getting | | | | have become |
| anywhere either because he's | | | | |
| | | | more demanding today just makes real |
| putting a fake foot forward to essentially | | | | relationships harder |
| buy her attention.He's not being his true | | | | |
| self upfront and those things will | | | | but I'm teaching attraction and not 'dating' |
| | | | or marriage.I don't know when the dating |
| surface later on both ends anyways. With the | | | | experts will EVER catch up but |
| progression of | | | | |
| | | | they are right about one thing (which is |
| independence and advancement in both men and | | | | skewed by the |
| women, there's | | | | |
| | | | seduction experts); women WANT men to be |
| more 'demons' that are being hidden as well | | | | themselves.The way seduction experts see it |
| as incompatible | | | | is if you just 'be |
| | | | |
| personality traits.Not to mention that | | | | yourself' you will fail with women so you |
| everyone looking for a 'date' is only | | | | have to basically |
| | | | |
| looking for an interpersonal solution for | | | | turn yourself into someone you're not just |
| themselves...they | | | | in order to get |
| | | | |
| don't really know the other person, just | | | | the end result (usually sex).The way I see |
| what they are | | | | it is that men are NOT really being |
| | | | themselves |
| judging.So, if a man follows society's | | | | |
| advice of (courtship) | | | | in the first place. This is where the |
| | | | problem lies; society |
| 'dating' women, it's like living an | | | | |
| incongruency (or lie) | | | | has diminished a man's own sense of |
| | | | masculinity, |
| with what he REALLY wants and what she wants | | | | |
| unless they | | | | independence and his place in the world in |
| | | | relation to |
| really ARE looking and about ready to get | | | | |
| married.Most single, young (and now older) | | | | everything else..it's all watered down so |
| men want to have physical | | | | that he has become |
| | | | |
| relationships and aren't looking to get | | | | a man of lower character and almost unable |
| married right away | | | | to instill the |
| | | | |
| until they really get to know a woman and | | | | attraction response in women.It seems the |
| courting her isn't | | | | only men that women are 'attracted to' (we're |
| | | | |
| really getting to know her.If there was a | | | | |
| price on love then a lot of people would be | | | | not talking about what society says she |
| | | | wants about marrying |
| permanently out of luck. Women know that | | | | |
| love doesn't cost a | | | | a 'nice guy', etc.) are the bad boys and |
| | | | jerks who used to |
| thing and I believe it (ie. J.Lo's natural | | | | |
| and not social | | | | be social outcasts.Why is this so? Simply |
| | | | because the other men aren't stepping |
| side) yet people will continue to try and | | | | |
| buy her affection.Today, desirable and | | | | up to the plate anymore. Our grandfathers |
| empowered women want to express their | | | | were men of high |
| | | | |
| (newfound) sexual freedom without having to | | | | natural character.And the men like this that |
| have this guy | | | | are balanced and high in |
| | | | |
| dragging her down. Basically girls really DO | | | | character, they're taken right away by women |
| just want to | | | | or in the |
| | | | |
| have fun but there's so much PRESSURE.Now a | | | | greatest demand. This balanced man is rare |
| man can do this without having to seduce her | | | | to find today; a |
| or be the | | | | |
| | | | man who can be himself, has qualities that |
| nice guy of courting her and getting both of | | | | women want and |
| them nowhere. | | | | |
| | | | isn't afraid or intimidated of being around |
| Most importantly he doesn't have to become | | | | beautiful women.In more scientific terms, men |
| someone he's not | | | | today have become the response |
| | | | |
| or being an abusive jerk just to succeed.If | | | | to women as the stimulus (in empowered, |
| men and women could just be upfront, casual | | | | forced reality |
| and honest | | | | |
| | | | cultures because the whole world is NOT like |
| with each other in their intentions they | | | | this). The |
| could both have a | | | | |
| | | | natural reality of attraction (and the |
| lot of fun and get to know each other | | | | MATING not dating |
| without false | | | | |
| | | | sequence) is that men are the stimulus to |
| expectations.And another important point, | | | | which women will |
| sex isn't likely to happen with | | | | |
| | | | respond to.A woman will do things to look |
| traditional courtship dating because society | | | | good so that men will 'pick |
| tells her to | | | | |
| | | | her' but their relationship or not rests on |
| delay sex so she can hold onto a keeper | | | | HER response to |
| (which makes sense | | | | |
| | | | HIM and not how he thinks she looks. She has |
| for COURTSHIP). The focus is more on their | | | | to sift through |
| | | | |
| social/fake/expected relationship and less | | | | the men of different character to decide.The |
| on who they | | | | men who have the most success with women |
| | | | anywhere have a |
| really are as people.When guys take the | | | | |
| 'dating route, it's like they have a | | | | high level of 'character' in any of the |
| | | | three areas I define |
| hidden agenda to get somewhere with her | | | | |
| taking this route | | | | in my free ebook; his natural, independent |
| | | | and social |
| and she knows it and in the wrong metaframe | | | | |
| of courtship | | | | character.Good news for men is that women |
| | | | KNOW to respond to men of |
| with him pursuing, it makes her want him | | | | |
| less.It looks like he's hiding his true self | | | | high natural character and pick them out of |
| and paying for her | | | | the crowd. |
| | | | |
| attention. She often feels obligated to give | | | | Unfortunately for many women, that means |
| him at least a | | | | they'll keep |
| | | | |
| hug in exchange for everything he bought her | | | | irrationally choosing to sleep with bad boys |
| and yet she'll | | | | who aren't |
| | | | |
| run off with a more dangerous man she is | | | | emotionally healthy until more guys like us |
| attracted to | | | | come along.In fact high social status men |
| | | | wonder if a women are just |
| because of the way SHE feels when she's | | | | |
| around him.She doesn't get these feelings of | | | | using them for their money/power or not (ie. |
| intoxication from the | | | | what Jay-Z raps |
| | | | |
| wooing, low independent character men who | | | | about).Women know when a man is who his body |
| are responding to | | | | says he is; it's hard |
| | | | |
| their perception of her. She wants to be | | | | to 'trick' her intuition about whether he |
| respected and | | | | can give her the |
| | | | |
| treated as an equal (and nice guys put her | | | | indescribable psychosexual response that |
| above themselves) | | | | only a man of high |
| | | | |
| so she often ends up pursuing an independent | | | | natural character can give her (few men |
| man.Women have changed dramatically in a | | | | reach this level but |
| social and personal | | | | |
| | | | about all could).She is extrapolating and |
| matter so that they now have tremendous | | | | judging men just as harshly as men |
| power, capability | | | | |
| | | | judge women. This is a whole area I get into |
| and favor in life. They're marrying later | | | | in my free |
| and less | | | | |
| | | | downloadable ebook on the website.These |
| interested in men wooing them when it comes | | | | physiologically and emotionally based |
| to attraction | | | | decisions she |
| | | | |
| and dating (unless they want to take | | | | makes about men will overrule her strong |
| material advantage of | | | | social influences; |
| | | | |
| the resources men are throwing at them).A | | | | her body and physiological desire can't |
| woman will often wonder if she will ever find | | | | resist.And if a good man can just develop |
| a real man | | | | himself and his own |
| | | | |
| who she can just have a fun and REAL time | | | | character, he can have great consistent |
| with which may or | | | | success with women |
| | | | |
| may not naturally end up in sex. She doesn't | | | | (while respecting them) and when he does |
| want men | | | | want to settle down |
| | | | |
| following her around like a whipped puppy, | | | | he can find a good woman from many |
| having them by | | | | options.For women, there could be more |
| | | | options of 'real men' and |
| the string and not respecting her own | | | | |
| independence.Gold-diggers might like this to | | | | they will stop choosing the bad boy or jerks |
| maintain high social status | | | | when they |
| | | | |
| but healthy women don't feel attraction for | | | | finally have the option of stable guys who |
| these men. It's | | | | have healthier |
| | | | |
| unnatural.The power has shifted and it's | | | | character (with just as much natural |
| changed almost everything. | | | | connection and ability |
| | | | |
| Tradition is thrown off course and nature | | | | to please her as the bad boys).Women will be |
| itself is being | | | | grateful because there would be more real men |
| | | | |
| slapped in the face by social culture and | | | | |
| it's influence | | | | so they don't have to fight over them as |
| | | | much or be as |
| (just turn on the t.v. and you'll be | | | | |
| inundated with it | | | | lonely. Men just have to become men of |
| | | | higher character and |
| non-stop).Men are wondering what went wrong | | | | |
| and if they themselves are | | | | improve themselves in the 3 areas that |
| | | | matter to women. This |
| the problem when it comes to dating. Their | | | | |
| entire psyche and | | | | CAN be done with the right resources to |
| | | | bring a man into his |
| outlook on reality has been affected and | | | | |
| this affects all | | | | natural destiny.When a man can be more of |
| | | | himself at all times and he can |
| areas of their life.All of this is NOT | | | | |
| desirable to alot of these women who have | | | | communicate with women that he is a man |
| | | | (nonverbally and |
| really improved themselves in all of the | | | | |
| aspects of their | | | | verbally) who is not ashamed of who he is; |
| | | | she can respect |
| life...a woman doesn't want to settle for | | | | |
| LESS, she wants | | | | this and will know where he stands on her |
| | | | |
| men that are worthy of her time and not | | | | interest/attraction level (hint; he has a |
| afraid of her for | | | | good chance).And the further he communicates |
| | | | that he really IS the man |
| just being herself (who she has | | | | |
| become).Little does she know though that she | | | | she idealized, the easier everything will be |
| would be a completely | | | | to take things |
| | | | |
| different woman if she were raised in | | | | to a connected interdependent |
| another culture. | | | | experience.She's the one who will make the |
| | | | choice and decision of |
| Little do men realize that they would have | | | | |
| natural success | | | | whether anything's going to happen so it's |
| | | | up to a man to |
| with women without really trying if they | | | | |
| went to many other | | | | help her out there. Most guys fail before |
| | | | they start by not |
| cultures in the world.They would be SHOCKED | | | | |
| to find that 'it just happens'. This | | | | being what women want and not following the |
| | | | natural order of |
| is what nature or intelligent design | | | | |
| intended. This | | | | things.For a naturally successful man who |
| | | | has lots of options of |
| realization on my part is what I call | | | | |
| 'cultural | | | | women he can take his pick but it's still |
| | | | the woman who are |
| differentiation'.The socio-cultural 'forced | | | | |
| reality' which began in America | | | | (eagerly) choosing to be with him.She can't |
| | | | tell a man to be 'more of a man', he just has |
| around the 1960's has influenced the | | | | to |
| relationship dynamics | | | | |
| | | | be that man and then can have all the |
| of countless millions of people now around | | | | success he dreams of |
| much of the | | | | |
| | | | with much less dependency on the words to |
| world. It's the impetus of a 50% divorce | | | | say because he |
| rate.Thankfully there is still the natural | | | | |
| reality of attraction; | | | | will be operating from where HIS power lies, |
| | | | his natural |
| the ability within man and woman to know | | | | |
| what to do when it | | | | character and ability to make women swoon |
| | | | despite his other |
| comes to attraction. It's within all of us | | | | |
| and more | | | | personal faults.This is about something more |
| | | | important than a quick-fix, |
| important than the social pervasive reality | | | | |
| that defines | | | | this is about bringing balance back to the |
| | | | force of male and |
| almost all current relations in these | | | | |
| societies.For man to truly begin to succeed | | | | female relationships.So my advice is for men |
| with women and attraction, | | | | to become their true selves of high |
| | | | |
| he must cut through all of the junk, see the | | | | character potential and strength in all |
| matrix for | | | | three areas |
| | | | |
| himself and understand his relation to | | | | (natural, independent/personality and |
| it.The fact that women respond to men of high | | | | social) which will |
| natural character | | | | |
| | | | henceforth fix almost ALL of their other |
| still doesn't change; it never will or we | | | | problems with |
| would be threatened | | | | |
| | | | attracting and succeeding with women they |
| with the thought of extinction (note the | | | | once were |
| birth rate is | | | | |
| | | | infatuated.It's all about the man and |
| increasing rapidly in traditional or natural | | | | developing his character so that |
| cultures the | | | | |
| | | | women will respond (to his characteristics |
| most).Independent career women have less | | | | as the stimulus) |
| time to raise more kids | | | | |
| | | | the way she dreams of responding when she |
| in their natural/traditional role as mother | | | | finds this kind of |
| and nurturer | | | | |
| | | | man.That is the underlying current in this |
| (reference; the neighbors in 'Cheaper by the | | | | crazy, mixed up world |
| Dozen').Choosing a path of seduction or 'pick | | | | |
| up arts' in order to | | | | that is still the source of pure hope and |
| | | | life throughout |
| get the end result is now not the only | | | | |
| option. There is | | | | most cultures. It's up to a man to embrace |
| | | | and represent the |
| another and more powerfully effective | | | | |
| way.You see, current social byproduct | | | | characteristics of his nature and self that |
| (response solutions) like | | | | will drive women |
| | | | |
| pick up and seduction have become very | | | | wild.Rion Williams is the celebrated author |
| popular because the | | | | of 'Mens Guide |
| | | | |
| way women are responding to these men.Women | | | | to Women' and is the first person to |
| not being interested, ignoring them, and | | | | quantify and put |
| rejecting | | | | |
| | | | in writing 'what women want'. |
| them is very real (and common) so some men | | | | |