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The Reality of Attraction and Dating In a Post Modern Society

Many men today are confused as to how tohave  found
attract  and  deal
another way to counteract it and deal with
with women. Today our women are moreit  (responding  to
beautiful  (through
woman's general social power as the
natural selection and beautification),stimulus).  The  unnatural
capable  and  empowered
transgression of sexual energy had to find
than at any point in history, and thoughan outlet.In order to become a successful
this  is  a  wonderfulseducer  or  'PUA'  generally  a
thing, it's had many ramifications when itman has to study a system of countless
comes  totechniques  and
relationships.Countless guys includingpsychological triggers to try to bring a
'great  catches'  are  frustrated  aswoman's  level  of
to how to deal with, attract and succeedinterest and attraction up to where it
with  thesematters.He will have to face a lot of
rejection  through  his  training
desirable women. In fact many men are so
frustrated  that  weto start seeing results...results that work
with  women
now have 40 year old virgins. The major
social  dilemma  thatstarting on the social level where she has
the  favor  and  he
I see exists is this:Men are wondering "what
is  wrong  with  the  women  (and  why  dowill often try to break down her social
identity  and  her
they treat us like this)"? and women are
wondering,  "Wherebelief in it so that her judgment becomes
more  clouded  and
are all the real men?"Guys want to be a nice
guy  and  they  will  even  do  whatin his favor.If he can 'talk her into' it to
a  point  where  he  comes  close
society tells them to when it comes to
dating  and  attractingto her expectational/ideal response, then he
may  'get
women yet almost none of it works. In fact
it  usually  repelslucky'. This is the hard road and it's not
natural,  although
women away or incites them to reluctantly
partake  in  thewith practice he can be more effective than
being  a  nice  guy
free gifts they're getting in exchange for
their  own  timeof confused/diminished character who follows
the  outdated
even though the women are bored, not really
interested  andcourtship dating (not mating) ritual.Overly
'wooful', courting men (nice guys) or PUA's
definitely not attracted.Societal 'dating'(pick-up
is  a  lot  of  presumptuous  false
artists) are BOTH trying to work against the
expectations and ideals that cater to hernatural  energy
social  leanings
of what women really want by trying to deal
and not what her heart truly desires (alsowith  her  on  the
because  few  of
social level where she has received the
these men have 'character').Despite what thepower  and  they  are
experts  say,  it  often  ends up being what
now essentially below her (and almost always
neither of them want (to appease arcaneact it).She likes the attention and social
social  norms)  andproof  plus  all  the  gifts
the guy goes home with an emptier wallet andand meals at times from the nice guys but
a  good  nightthere's  a  part  of
hug and she'll end up (having sex) with aher that is hollow and missing something (no
jerk  who  she  ispun intended).She's not really attracted to
these  men  and  he  doesn't
biologically attracted to.If he's 'lucky' he
can  maybe  this  beautiful  woman's friend.understand why he keeps buying her all these
gifts  and  she
"Let's just be friends"...the kiss of death
for  him  if  hedoesn't call back and dumps him.There's no
win/win situation there. I teach my men to
only wanted something else.So in order forkeep
men to be more effective with dating they're
things interdependent and not to abuse their
going to have to do some different things.power
And  I'm  not
(potentially over women) when they attain
talking about becoming someone they're notawareness  but  to
so  they  have  to
respect women and add value to their
'seduce' women or act like a jerk, be alives.If a woman can just find a man who is
playboy  or  even  toupfront,  honest  and
'give her some of her own medicine'.Womencongruent with who he is and how he lives
are just wondering why that can't find a manshe'll  respect  him
they  are
(probably be greatly relieved from social
attracted to who actually IS healthy andpressures)  and
stable.First of all society promotes
'courtship'  which  is  athen can decide whether to join him on his
adventures  or
socially derived function which worked great
throughoutnot...and he doesn't get rejected.In the
game of attraction and who she is attracted
modern history when people lived in the sameto  (who
communities  and
she chooses and not what she or society
the focus was immediately on raising asays),  her  decisions
family.  Simply  put,
are almost always made on the natural level
things changed.Today's independent women are(although
more  interested  in  exercising
unhealthy gold-diggers base their decisions
their freedoms and seeing what happenson  the  social
instead  of  putting  up
level and teenage boy band fans will become
with all of the implied expectations dealinginfatuated  with
with  having  to
a star's independent character
marry each guy they go out with.Take a lookportrayal).The biological and natural mating
at the hit 'Sex and the City'. Quite a longinstinct  is  the  timeless
ways
authority that guarantees something like
from 'Leave it to Beaver' (and modernsocial  development
programming  would  have
wouldn't throw nature off it's course
been blasphemy back then; that's how far(although  it's  now
we've come).So I don't know why dating
experts  keep  teaching  dating  asbeing threatened).Everyone knows how to
reproduce;  we  don't  have  to  be  taught
courtship; it's just so antiquated. Is it
really  to(Return to Blue Lagoon). Social influence
has  just  gotten  in
'protect' women (who are more independent
and  powerful  thanthe way. It has confused some men so much
that  they  wonder
ever before anyways)?Maybe they just don't
want  to  face  the  reality  of  what womenif they were ever meant to reproduce or go
through  the
want.Yes, most women eventually want to get
married  but  they  wantmating ritual. This is a very true reality
for many men.And yet woman will often end up
it to happen casually and naturally whenwith  jerks  and  losers
they  meet  a  guy  now
instead who are fearless and strong in
to see how it develops (with someone she'snatural  character
interested  in)
because they're the closest options
INSTEAD OF having guys wooing and courtingavailable  to  her
her  from  date
attraction response ideal (of how she
number one with flowers, dinner, walking on'feels'  when  she's
eggshells  and  lots
with him). Basically our biology is stronger
of incoming phone calls from someone she'sthan  our  social
not  interested  in
programming.And nice guys everywhere will
(unless she's letting her parents or socialjust  not  get  what's  going  on
expectations  rule
and they will remain confused and
the decision).Usually that's a LOT ofdisparately  powerless  or
pressure  and  expectation  to  deal
less than they could be most of their adult
with plus the guy's are coming on too heavylives  unless
and  it's  SO
they really find their own path through the
predictable...they all seem the same to hermire.The answer lies in discovering what
just  about  andsociety  has  hidden  from
it's very tiring. Now it's the good guys whohim. It's not in being the wife-beater
are  gettingt-shirt  guy,  it's
their hearts trampled (see pop music) byabout being a man of character; a man who is
these women.In a traditional 'dating'comfortable  in
situation  (which  we  know
his own skin and can handle (and please)
mainstream society promotes) she's notwomen  without
necessarily  being
having to say a word.This is what women
herself (although her grandma may havewant.  A  real  man.  One  who is respectful
been),  she's  being
but never panders to women or let's them
what society tells her to be (although timesviolate  his  own
have  changed)
(respectful) boundaries. The fact that women
and how to act.Plus the man isn't gettinghave  become
anywhere  either  because  he's
more demanding today just makes real
putting a fake foot forward to essentiallyrelationships  harder
buy her attention.He's not being his true
self  upfront  and  those  things  willbut I'm teaching attraction and not 'dating'
or marriage.I don't know when the dating
surface later on both ends anyways. With theexperts  will  EVER  catch  up  but
progression  of
they are right about one thing (which is
independence and advancement in both men andskewed  by  the
women,  there's
seduction experts); women WANT men to be
more 'demons' that are being hidden as wellthemselves.The way seduction experts see it
as  incompatibleis  if  you  just  'be
personality traits.Not to mention thatyourself' you will fail with women so you
everyone  looking  for  a  'date'  is  onlyhave  to  basically
looking for an interpersonal solution forturn yourself into someone you're not just
themselves...theyin  order  to  get
don't really know the other person, justthe end result (usually sex).The way I see
what  they  areit is that men are NOT really being
themselves
judging.So, if a man follows society's
advice  of  (courtship)in the first place. This is where the
problem  lies;  society
'dating' women, it's like living an
incongruency  (or  lie)has diminished a man's own sense of
masculinity,
with what he REALLY wants and what she wants
unless  theyindependence and his place in the world in
relation  to
really ARE looking and about ready to get
married.Most single, young (and now older)everything else..it's all watered down so
men  want  to  have  physicalthat  he  has  become
relationships and aren't looking to geta man of lower character and almost unable
married  right  awayto  instill  the
until they really get to know a woman andattraction response in women.It seems the
courting  her  isn'tonly men that women are 'attracted to' (we're
really getting to know her.If there was a
price  on love then a lot of people would benot talking about what society says she
wants  about  marrying
permanently out of luck. Women know that
love  doesn't  cost  aa 'nice guy', etc.) are the bad boys and
jerks  who  used  to
thing and I believe it (ie. J.Lo's natural
and  not  socialbe social outcasts.Why is this so? Simply
because  the  other  men  aren't  stepping
side) yet people will continue to try and
buy her affection.Today, desirable andup to the plate anymore. Our grandfathers
empowered  women  want  to  express  theirwere  men  of  high
(newfound) sexual freedom without having tonatural character.And the men like this that
have  this  guyare  balanced  and  high  in
dragging her down. Basically girls really DOcharacter, they're taken right away by women
just  want  toor  in  the
have fun but there's so much PRESSURE.Now agreatest demand. This balanced man is rare
man can do this without having to seduce herto  find  today;  a
or  be  the
man who can be himself, has qualities that
nice guy of courting her and getting both ofwomen  want  and
them  nowhere.
isn't afraid or intimidated of being around
Most importantly he doesn't have to becomebeautiful women.In more scientific terms, men
someone  he's  nottoday  have  become  the  response
or being an abusive jerk just to succeed.Ifto women as the stimulus (in empowered,
men and women could just be upfront, casualforced  reality
and  honest
cultures because the whole world is NOT like
with each other in their intentions theythis).  The
could  both  have  a
natural reality of attraction (and the
lot of fun and get to know each otherMATING  not  dating
without  false
sequence) is that men are the stimulus to
expectations.And another important point,which  women  will
sex  isn't  likely  to  happen  with
respond to.A woman will do things to look
traditional courtship dating because societygood  so  that  men  will  'pick
tells  her  to
her' but their relationship or not rests on
delay sex so she can hold onto a keeperHER  response  to
(which  makes  sense
HIM and not how he thinks she looks. She has
for  COURTSHIP). The focus is more on theirto  sift  through
social/fake/expected relationship and lessthe men of different character to decide.The
on  who  theymen who have the most success with women
anywhere  have  a
really are as people.When guys take the
'dating  route,  it's  like  they  have  ahigh level of 'character' in any of the
three  areas  I  define
hidden agenda to get somewhere with her
taking  this  routein my free ebook; his natural, independent
and  social
and she knows it and in the wrong metaframe
of  courtshipcharacter.Good news for men is that women
KNOW  to  respond  to  men  of
with him pursuing, it makes her want him
less.It looks like he's hiding his true selfhigh natural character and pick them out of
and  paying  for  herthe  crowd.
attention. She often feels obligated to giveUnfortunately for many women, that means
him  at  least  athey'll  keep
hug in exchange for everything he bought herirrationally choosing to sleep with bad boys
and  yet  she'llwho  aren't
run off with a more dangerous man she isemotionally healthy until more guys like us
attracted  tocome along.In fact high social status men
wonder  if  a  women  are  just
because of the way SHE feels when she's
around him.She doesn't get these feelings ofusing them for their money/power or not (ie.
intoxication  from  thewhat  Jay-Z  raps
wooing, low independent character men whoabout).Women know when a man is who his body
are  responding  tosays  he  is;  it's  hard
their perception of her. She wants to beto 'trick' her intuition about whether he
respected  andcan  give  her  the
treated as an equal (and nice guys put herindescribable psychosexual response that
above  themselves)only  a  man  of  high
so she often ends up pursuing an independentnatural character can give her (few men
man.Women have changed dramatically in areach  this  level  but
social  and  personal
about all could).She is extrapolating and
matter so that they now have tremendousjudging  men  just  as  harshly  as  men
power,  capability
judge women. This is a whole area I get into
and favor in life. They're marrying laterin  my  free
and  less
downloadable ebook on the website.These
interested in men wooing them when it comesphysiologically and emotionally based
to  attractiondecisions  she
and dating (unless they want to takemakes about men will overrule her strong
material  advantage  ofsocial  influences;
the resources men are throwing at them).Aher body and physiological desire can't
woman will often wonder if she will ever findresist.And if a good man can just develop
a  real  manhimself  and  his  own
who she can just have a fun and REAL timecharacter, he can have great consistent
with  which  may  orsuccess  with  women
may not naturally end up in sex. She doesn't(while respecting them) and when he does
want  menwant  to  settle  down
following her around like a whipped puppy,he can find a good woman from many
having  them  byoptions.For women, there could be more
options  of  'real  men'  and
the string and not respecting her own
independence.Gold-diggers might like this tothey will stop choosing the bad boy or jerks
maintain  high  social  statuswhen  they
but healthy women don't feel attraction forfinally have the option of stable guys who
these  men.  It'shave  healthier
unnatural.The power has shifted and it'scharacter (with just as much natural
changed  almost  everything.connection  and  ability
Tradition is thrown off course and natureto please her as the bad boys).Women will be
itself  is  beinggrateful because there would be more real men
slapped in the face by social culture and
it's  influenceso they don't have to fight over them as
much  or  be  as
(just turn on the t.v. and you'll be
inundated  with  itlonely. Men just have to become men of
higher  character  and
non-stop).Men are wondering what went wrong
and  if  they  themselves  areimprove themselves in the 3 areas that
matter  to  women.  This
the problem when it comes to dating. Their
entire  psyche  andCAN be done with the right resources to
bring  a  man  into  his
outlook on reality has been affected and
this  affects  allnatural destiny.When a man can be more of
himself  at  all  times  and  he  can
areas of their life.All of this is NOT
desirable  to  alot  of these women who havecommunicate with women that he is a man
(nonverbally  and
really improved themselves in all of the
aspects  of  theirverbally) who is not ashamed of who he is;
she  can  respect
life...a woman doesn't want to settle for
LESS,  she  wantsthis  and  will know where he stands on her
men that are worthy of her time and notinterest/attraction level (hint; he has a
afraid  of  her  forgood chance).And the further he communicates
that  he  really  IS  the  man
just being herself (who she has
become).Little does she know though that sheshe idealized, the easier everything will be
would  be  a  completelyto  take  things
different woman if she were raised into a connected interdependent
another  culture.experience.She's the one who will make the
choice  and  decision  of
Little do men realize that they would have
natural  successwhether anything's going to happen so it's
up  to  a  man  to
with women without really trying if they
went  to  many  otherhelp her out there. Most guys fail before
they  start  by  not
cultures in the world.They would be SHOCKED
to  find  that  'it  just  happens'.  Thisbeing what women want and not following the
natural  order  of
is what nature or intelligent design
intended.  Thisthings.For a naturally successful man who
has  lots  of  options  of
realization on my part is what I call
'culturalwomen he can take his pick but it's still
the  woman  who  are
differentiation'.The socio-cultural 'forced
reality'  which  began  in  America(eagerly) choosing to be with him.She can't
tell a man to be 'more of a man', he just has
around the 1960's has influenced theto
relationship  dynamics
be that man and then can have all the
of countless millions of people now aroundsuccess  he  dreams  of
much  of  the
with much less dependency on the words to
world. It's the impetus of a 50% divorcesay  because  he
rate.Thankfully there is still the natural
reality  of  attraction;will be operating from where HIS power lies,
his  natural
the ability within man and woman to know
what  to  do  when  itcharacter and ability to make women swoon
despite  his  other
comes to attraction. It's within all of us
and  morepersonal faults.This is about something more
important  than  a  quick-fix,
important than the social pervasive reality
that  definesthis is about bringing balance back to the
force  of  male  and
almost all current relations in these
societies.For man to truly begin to succeedfemale relationships.So my advice is for men
with  women  and  attraction,to  become  their  true  selves  of  high
he must cut through all of the junk, see thecharacter potential and strength in all
matrix  forthree  areas
himself and understand his relation to(natural, independent/personality and
it.The fact that women respond to men of highsocial)  which  will
natural  character
henceforth fix almost ALL of their other
still doesn't change; it never will or weproblems  with
would  be  threatened
attracting and succeeding with women they
with the thought of extinction (note theonce  were
birth  rate  is
infatuated.It's all about the man and
increasing rapidly in traditional or naturaldeveloping  his  character  so  that
cultures  the
women will respond (to his characteristics
most).Independent career women have lessas  the  stimulus)
time  to  raise  more  kids
the way she dreams of responding when she
in their natural/traditional role as motherfinds  this  kind  of
and  nurturer
man.That is the underlying current in this
(reference; the neighbors in 'Cheaper by thecrazy,  mixed  up  world
Dozen').Choosing a path of seduction or 'pick
up  arts'  in  order  tothat is still the source of pure hope and
life  throughout
get the end result is now not the only
option.  There  ismost cultures. It's up to a man to embrace
and  represent  the
another and more powerfully effective
way.You see, current social byproductcharacteristics of his nature and self that
(response  solutions)  likewill  drive  women
pick up and seduction have become verywild.Rion Williams is the celebrated author
popular  because  theof  'Mens  Guide
way women are responding to these men.Womento Women' and is the first person to
not being interested, ignoring them, andquantify  and  put
rejecting
in writing 'what women want'.
them is very real (and common) so some men



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