| Important lessons can be learned by a
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| | the silent victim (my friend's wife who
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| person's errors in judgment and mistakes.
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| | didn't hear my comments). My friend said
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| Recently I learned from an error in
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| | that it wasn't necessary to apologize to
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| judgment that I made. The incident
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| | his wife but I disagreed. I believe that
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| occurred when I insulted one of my best
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| | like lies there are two types of harm
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| friend's wife (not done intentionally).
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| | that can be committed against another
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| This set off a journey of internal soul
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| | person. The first type of harm is a
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| searching on my part.The incident: While
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| | direct harm that is committed against
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| at my friend's house for dinner, I made a
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| | another person (like hitting a person).
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| comment that was directed at my friend's
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| | Then there is a silent harm that is
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| wife. She did not hear the comment but
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| | committed (insulting someone behind their
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| my friend did hear it. He did not say
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| | back). In this case I committed the
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| anything (Didn't want to embarrass me in
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| | silent harm that wasn't heard by my
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| front of her). He knew what I had meant
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| | friend's wife. I felt that out of
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| by the comment but was unhappy with what
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| | respect for my friend and his wife, I
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| I said. It was a very insulting comment.
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| | needed to apologize to her and ask for
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| A few days went by and then my friend
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| | forgiveness. That's exactly what I
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| confronted me. Initially I resisted.
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| | did.The lessons I learned came directly
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| Finally the light bulb went on and I
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| | from the teachings of my religion
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| realized that my actions were very
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| | (Judaism). Once a year, we must ask G-d
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| wrong.So what did I learn from this
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| | or anyone that we have sinned against,
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| incident? I learned that even though I
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| | for forgiveness. We are told that we
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| try to lead a good and moral life, I'm
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| | should act this way throughout the whole
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| human and do make mistakes. I must take
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| | year.While this exercise was initially
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| action not to let the same mistake to
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| | very painful, it was extremely rewarding.
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| occur again. In this case I admitted
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| | I was able to learn something about
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| complete wrong doing to myself with no
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| | myself. More importantly, I was able to
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| exceptions.I also learned that admitting
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| | correct the harm done to both my friend
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| an error to yourself is not enough. You
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| | and his wife. I was able to make sure
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| must make amends for the harm that has
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| | that there was honesty and integrity in
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| been caused. In this case, I
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| | our friendship.I would like to thank my
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| disrespected my friend by insulting his
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| | friend for having the courage and
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| wife. My resolution was to apologize to
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| | strength to be honest with me and to
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| him and express my regrets for the
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| | challenge me. I will do my best in the
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| comments that were made. I admitted that
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| | future to prevent these types of
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| they were wrong and needless. I asked
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| | incidents.Anthony B. is the founder and
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| for his forgiveness.The final lesson that
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| | owner of a news, political and sports
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| I learned was that I had to apologize to
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| | commentary website.
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